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Resource Links

You could consider this site a supplement to the more typical resources out there about how to deal with issues like shyness, social anxiety, personal development, and meeting women. The sites below provide some more direct information about how to address these problems. I obviously can't vouch for every last bit of content on sites I don't control, so please use your common sense and good judgment when evaluating what you find on them.

This list will keep on growing. If you have a link you think I should add, let me know.

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Shyness Links
Social Anxiety / Social Phobia Links
Depression Links
Asperger's Syndrome Links
Loneliness Links
Involuntary Celibacy & Love Shyness Links
Links for guys on life, coolness, etc.

Shyness Links

Wikipedia article on Shyness

SHY United
Articles, newsletter, forums, chat, links.

Don't Be Shy
A good blog devoted to shyness, written by a woman named Dee

Shy and Free
Advice on understanding and dealing with shyness coming from a humanistic perspective.

Combating Shyness
Contains information on shyness and social phobia along with a lot of links.

Release Your Shyness
I don't think this site is up any longer, but I'm leaving the link up in case it starts working again. Sixty long articles on shyness, written by a self-proclaimed former 'EXTREMELY shy' woman.

The Shy Writer
Website for The Shy Writer: An Introvert's Guide to Writing Success.

Social Anxiety / Social Phobia Links

Wikipedia article on Social Anxiety

Social Phobia / Social Anxiety Association
Tons of information on the disorder here.

Social Anxiety Support
Lots of information on Social Anxiety and Self-Esteem here, along with the busiest Social Phobia discussion board.

Social Anxiety UK
Comprehensive site on social anxiety complete with a busy discussion board.

Social Phobia World
Mainly a Social Anxiety and shyness discussion board.

Depression Links

Wikipedia article on Depression

A detailed overview of depression

Depression Forums
The name says it all.

Asperger's Syndrome Links

Wikipedia article on Asperger's Syndrome

Online Asperger Syndrome Information & Support (O.A.S.I.S.)
Overview, articles, message board, etc.

Loneliness Links

Wikipedia article on loneliness

Web of Loneliness
Pretty thorough free site on the causes of loneliness and how to overcome it.

Involuntary Celibacy ("Incel") Links

Wikipedia article on Involuntary Celibacy

Wikipedia article on Love Shyness

Incel Support
A forum for people grappling with Involuntary Celibacy. Definately check this out if you're still very inexperienced with the opposite sex past your late 20's.

Incelsite
Provides an overview of Involuntary Celibacy plus some other information and resource links.

Love-Shy.com
A site devoted to the problem of love shyness. Has some information on the condition, a forum, and recommendations for further reading.

Shyness & Love - Dr. Brian G. Gilmartin
Link where you can download a free .PDF of the out-of-print book Shyness & Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatments. The author gave permission for the .PDF to be made as it is unlikely that the publishers are going to reprint the book in the future. The Wikipedia article on Love Shyness summarizes its findings.

Dating Groundwork
I write this one. It's an offshoot to this site which contains a handful of articles on being an older virgin, the foundations you need to do better with women, and some priorities and pitfalls sexually and romantically inexperienced guys should keep in mind. It's not specifically about love shyness or involuntary celibacy per se, but this is the best spot to put it.

Links About Life, Coolness, The World, etc.

Disagree with me if you want, but these sites taught me a lot about the world and some aspects of what it means to be a cool guy. You can pick up some good knowledge and attitudes from them. They're for other young guys like myself and I realize not everyone is going to like them or the flavor of 'cool' they represent. I can deal.

I'm a big believer that you can absorb a ton of free life experience by reading everything you can get your hands on. If you can't learn something first hand then you can do the next best thing and read about it.

But seriously, over thinking things aside, these sites are all just entertaining, at least in my opinion.

Vice Magazine

The website of Vice, a free hipsterish magazine that has messed up articles on all kinds of topics (drugs, sex, and weird subcultures being not uncommon). Every issue has a different theme.

The Onion

Popular satirical paper. Lots of funny observations about human nature in here.

Rudius Media Message Boards

You can learn a fair bit about life from this forum. The threads are on all kinds of topics and many interesting types weigh in with their own experiences. Read through the archives of it and you'll learn a lot about the world. The board can have a dysfunctional undercurrent at times though, so I wouldn't get too caught up in it.

Urban Dictionary

If you don't know what a certain piece of slang means you can look it up here.

College Humor

Lots of short comical pieces on college life. I used to be naive and clueless about things like parties and beer pong. If you're like I was, that you can get up to speed here.

PhilaLawyer

A blog featuring Hunter S. Thompson-esque autobiographical stories by a disenchanted corporate attorney. Contained within the accounts are some extremely sharp insights about life.

Wikipedia

Tons of information on any topic you can imagine. Check out some of the articles on subcultures. There's some crazy shit out there.

And if you ever hear of something, like a new T.V. show, band, or trend, and you want to get up to speed on it, you'll find something on it here.

Pandora Internet Radio

You now have to live in the U.S. to access it (which I don't), but holy crap this site is awesome if you do, unless you don't like unlimited free music that is. Totally legal too. What you do is type in a song or artist name and it creates an internet radio station for you with similar songs. Great way to learn about good artists you'll like. You have to register after hearing a handful of songs but it does nothing to affect the service as far as I can tell.