Latest Articles And Other Site Updates
This isn't a complete list of all the site's articles, just the ones from the last few years. Click here to browse everything I've written on social skills.
Here are links to some ways you can be notified of updates to the site:
November 8, 2019
Misconceptions And Objections About Cognitive Restructuring In Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
October 25, 2019
Some Ways The Modern World May Enable Social Anxiety And Awkwardness
Some Ways Modern Society Is Better Than Ever For Socially Anxious, Awkward, Non-mainstream People
October 11, 2019
It's Common To Not Be Able To Recall Details Of Your Life Or Recent Activities Right Away
September 27, 2019
Don't Be Hard On Yourself If Your Social Skills Progress Is Slow And Inconsistent At Times
September 13, 2019
When You Often Zone Out Or Space Out During Conversations
August 30, 2019
Your Social Anxiety And Awkwardness Are Not Your Fault
August 16, 2019
July 29, 2019
When Anxiety Makes You Lose Your Appetite
July 12, 2019
Worries About Stumbling Over Your Words Or Being Inarticulate
June 24, 2019
June 10, 2019
Ways To Get Some Quick Social Contact When You're Feeling Really Lonely And Isolated
May 24, 2019
Signs You Need To Do More To Treat Your Anxiety Even Though You're "Functioning"
May 8, 2019
Don't Boast About Learning Manipulative Social Techniques
April 25, 2019
Types Of Meetup.com Events, Based On Their Social Dynamics
April 16, 2019
Does Meetup.com Work For Making Friends?
March 29, 2019
How To Find A Therapist To Help Your Teenager With Their Social Skills Or Social Anxiety
March 12, 2019
Try Not To Bring An 'Adult Dating' Mentality To Making Friends When You're Older
February 26, 2019
How To Get Feedback On Your Social Skills And How You Come Across
February 13, 2019
When People Don't Ask About You In Conversations
January 31, 2019
Ground-Level Social Skill: Don't Have Poor Hygiene Or Do Gross Things
January 11, 2019
How To Handle Making A Social Mistake
January 2, 2019
Trying To Avoid Feelings Of Discouragement And Disappointment Can Hinder Your Social Development
December 11, 2018
Behaviors That Are Non-Sexually Creepy
November 28, 2018
I'm now offering one-on-one social skills coaching, via video chat. Click the link for more details.
November 23, 2018
November 2, 2018
Social Mistake: Unintentionally Insulting People
October 10, 2018
Don't Casually Dismiss Feedback On Your Social Skills
September 19, 2018
Some Unhealthy Friend Group Roles
September 5, 2018
It's Not Automatically Rude To Talk About Yourself
August 24, 2018
"Knowledge Check" Social And Fashion Guidelines
August 7, 2018
When You're Better At Group Conversations Than Talking One-On-One
July 6, 2018
The Idea That Basic Social Skills Are Just "Common Sense"
June 29, 2018
Thoughts On "Be Yourself" As Social Advice
June 12, 2018
Why Friends May Hardly Ever Initiate Contact To Chat
June 5, 2018
The Importance Of Little Common, Standardized Social Exchanges
May 29, 2018
When You Have No Interests Or Hobbies
May 17, 2018
Social Anxiety Safety Behaviors
April 20, 2018
Why Can Your Confidence And Social Skills Fluctuate So Much?
March 29, 2018
Does 'Fake It 'Til You Make It' Work For Improving Your Social Skills And Confidence?
March 22, 2018
How To Make Friends When You're Still Shy
March 15, 2018
March 8, 2018
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Social Situations
March 2, 2018
Social Thoughts That Are Common, But Which People Can Worry Are Abnormal
February 16, 2018
Some Social Problems That Mainly Affect People When They're Younger
February 6, 2018
The audiobook version of the The Social Skills Guidebook is now available. The length is 9 hours and 23 minutes, and it covers the same material as the paperback and ebook versions. You can get it for US$19.95 on Amazon or Audible.
Here's a link to it on Amazon
January 15, 2018
The audiobook version of the The Social Skills Guidebook is coming out soon. It will be sold on Audible.com / Amazon, and be up in early February. I can't give an exact date because part of the process is out of my hands; once I submit the audio files to the online store, they can vary in how long they take to make the title available for purchase. I'll make another update when it's for sale though.
September 22, 2017
Superficial Stereotypical Dorkiness Vs. True Social Awkwardness
August 28, 2017
What Do People Actually Do At Parties?
August 9, 2017
July 19, 2017
When You Lose Interest In People Quickly
May 16, 2017
When People Aren't Interested In Talking About Your Hobbies
May 4, 2017
I made a major revision to an old article, to the point where it's essentially new. What used to be The Importance Of Getting Your Appearance In Order is now:
How Much Do You Really Need To Improve Your Fashion Sense To Be Socially Successful?
The old article made a quick case for why working on your looks can benefit your social life, then gave some quick general tips on ways to improve your appearance. The new version is more about the question of how important adjusting your look actually is.
April 27, 2017
I did an interview on the site Social Pro:
I also put up a page with links to some other interviews I've done over the years:
April 19, 2017
How To Let Someone Know You're Not Interested In Starting A Friendship With Them
March 29, 2017
Why Potential New Friends May Not Follow Through After Talking About Hanging Out
March 16, 2017
How Not To Get Talked Over Or Ignored In Group Conversations
February 23, 2017
Why People Can Give Vague, Unhelpful Social Advice
February 17, 2017
How To Have The College Experience If You Missed Out On It
January 24, 2017
Telling People You Have Social Anxiety
December 14, 2016
Worries Of People Who Have No Friends
Telling People Or Lying About Having No Friends
How To Make Friends When You Have No Friends
November 25, 2016
Making Conversation With Someone Who Is Only Giving You Short Answers
November 10, 2016
When Everyone Is Talking About A Topic You Can't Contribute To
October 27, 2016
When You Live In An Area Where It's Harder To Make Friends
October 14, 2016
When Your Mind Goes Blank, Or You Can Only Think Slowly, In Social Situations
October 3, 2016
When You Don't Feel Interested In People And What They Have To Say
September 19, 2016
Thoughts On Social Advice That Portrays Basic, Core Skills As Being Advanced
September 3, 2016
Some Beginner Mistakes, Traps, And Misconceptions While Learning Social Skills
July 28, 2016
Ways To Increase Your Chances Of Getting Into True Platonic Friendships With Guys
June 2nd, 2016
Not All Popular People Are Jerks
May 12, 2016
When You Feel Like You're Too Ugly To Have Friends
Ways To Get Past Insecurities About Your Looks
March 22, 2016
Worries About Being More Outgoing With People You Were Previously Shy Around
February 23, 2016
Big revision to one of the site's earliest articles, which was previously called Mistakes Lonely People Often Make:
Patterns That Can Keep People Stuck In Their Loneliness
February 17, 2016
Is It Worthwhile To Seek A Formal Asperger's Syndrome Diagnosis If You Think You Have It?
January 13, 2016
Overcoming Fear Of Blushing / Erythrophobia
September 10, 2015
Having Certain Traits Won't Automatically Lead To A Social Payoff Down The Line
August 3, 2015
The Things That Made The Biggest Difference When I Was First Improving My Own Social Skills
June 16, 2015
How To Have A Social Life Without Alcohol
March 18, 2015
November 21, 2014
A Few Common Questions Socially Awkward People Have A Harder Time Answering
September 1, 2014
Empathy In Social Situations And Not Coming Off As Insensitive
August 14, 2014
When You Always Have To Invite Your Friends Out First
August 4, 2014
An Overview Of Assertiveness Skills
June 6, 2014
June 2, 2014
How To Deal With Negative Judgments About Your Social Issues
May 21, 2014
Going Out Alone To Meet New Friends And Practice Your Social Skills
May 9, 2014
How To Have More Deep, Substantial Conversations
May 1, 2014
Thoughts On Storytelling In Social Situations
April 10, 2014
Dynamics Of Regular Group Conversations
April 1, 2014
Some Common Conversation Mistakes
March 27, 2014
March 13, 2014
Getting Past The First Few Minutes Of One-On-One Conversation
February 25th, 2014
Guide To Socializing And Meeting Friends At Meetup.com Events
February 11, 2014
There’s No Single List Of Social Rules And Norms
How To Figure Out Social Rules And Norms On Your Own
February 4, 2014
It’s Never Too Late For You To Have A Successful Social Life
January 22, 2014
Being Socially Awkward Doesn’t Make You A Completely Flawed Person
January 3, 2014
How To Join An Existing Group Of Friends
October 16, 2013
Revised self-esteem articles:
Points To Be Aware Of Before You Try To Build Your Self-Confidence
How To Increase Your Overall Self-Esteem Or Self-Confidence
Increasing Self-Confidence In Particular Social Situations
September 25, 2013
August 20, 2013
It’s Okay To Be Less Social, Be Quiet, Not Like Sports, etc.
June 21, 2013
When People Say You Always Looks Angry/Upset/Worried/etc
June 13, 2013
Interpersonal Issues Gays And Lesbians May Have To Deal WithBrowse All The Site's Articles
